¶ 12:33 AM //

I'm sure you've seen this around. Since I have nothing to hide, here's a little something about me. Probably more than you ever wanted to know...lol

Name: Shelia Goss
Knickname: Ebony Eyes, Oh Shelia
Birth place: LA
Coke or Pepsi: SPRITE
Relationship status: Single, but dating...I.hope I don't end up like Veronica Christina Webb, a character, from my next novel -- My Three Beaus.
Ethnicity: African-American
Religious standpoint: Christian.
High School Stereotype: Nerdy Anti-Social Chick. (ditto...plus a bookworm)
Adult Stereotype: Shy, yet friendly
Favorite television show: CSI (Las Vegas/Miami)/Girlfriends/Dave Chappelle Show
Favorite designer: let me think about this
Favorite food: Italian and Soul Food
Favorite restaurant: The Olive Garden
Favorite juice: Grape
Pizza: Pizza Hut
Favorite Snack: Cheese Nips
Pet Peeve: Someone who doesn't respect what others have to say.
Favorite Book: Too many to name...but Waiting to Exhale is a classic in my eyes
Favorite Vacation Spot: Paradise Island, Bahamas and The Cayman Islands
Dream Vacation Spot: Eqypt
Favorite Scent: Escape by Calvin Klein and Issey Miyake
Pairs of Shoes: approx. 25 pair
Best Talent: Writing and promotional ideas
Last Cry: Cried over a personal dilemna
Do you like your handwriting: No...I write like a doctor and I don't know latin (smile)
Favorite CD: Prince Greatest Hits (CDS 1,2, & 3)
Most embarrassing CD: Lil John and anything he's on (people are surprised I like some hip-hop music)
Best trait: I'll let you be the judge of that.
Do you have a journal; Online (ditto)
Would you bungee jump: Not willingly
Do you untie your shoes when you take them off: No
Favorite ice cream flavor: French Vanilla
Shoe Size: 9 or 10
What is your least favorite thing about yourself: I don't relax much.
Who do you miss most: Having my family the way it used to be.
What are you wearing right now: Tshirt and shorts
What is the last thing you ate: red beans and rice
If you were a crayon, what color would you be: Blue
Last person you talked to on the phone: my brother
The first things you notice about the opposite sex: smile, chest, eyes, etc.
What are you listening to right now: NBA Eastern Finals is playing in the background
Last Movie You Watched: Madagascar
Favorite Day Of The Year? My Birthday! (DITTO) and Christmas/New Years.
Fetishes: I hate to get my hands dirty.
Pillows: at least 2, but I love lots of pillows.
Person you wished you could've said goodbye to: My Dad
Favorite Season: Spring/Fall (love the change of seasons)
Hugs or Kisses? Both
What Is Your Favorite Dessert: Banana Pudding/Pound Cake/Grandmother's Tea Cakes
What book are you reading now: If It Ain't One Thing by Cheryl Robinson/Gimme an O by Kayla Perrin/The Preacher's Son by Carl Weber
What's On Your Mouse Pad: Dell logo
What Did You Watch Last night on TV: nothing...when I got home I went to bed
Favorite Sounds: The sound of the ocean.
Deepest Regret: too many to name
What stirs your creative juices: Watching my nephews/little cousins play and music
What's the furthest you've been from home: Bahamas and/or Mexico (hadn't measured the distance)

Why don't you paste and post on your blog...will be looking for your responses.

¶ 9:14 PM //

The past few weeks I've taken a break from a lot of things. With my temp job (which has now ended) it took a lot out of me. Now that I've had time to regroup, I'm ready to finish the rest of the things on my to do list.

I didn't realize how "tired" I was until I no longer had to work 14/16 hour days. Now don't get me wrong, I can write 14 hours and it doesn't bother me, but when it comes to other jobs, I have a problem with putting in that much time because it's taking me away from doing what I love most-WRITING.

Now that I've rested. I'm ready to write, promote, write and write some more.

¶ 12:00 PM //

Time Life Music presents DUETS from The Classic Soul Ballads Collection. Duets is a soul stirring CD compilation of some of the best duets in music history.

Remember Peaches and Herb's Reunited. How about Diana Ross and Lionel Richie's Endless Love. These songs among others have stood the test of time (no pun intended).

As with the last few weeks entries, I’ve posted a few of the songs that are on the CD below. There are many more, but these are some of my favorites.

Disc 1

Ain't Nothing Like The Real Thing – Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell
Endless Love – Diana Ross and Lionel Richie
You Don't Have To Be A Star – Marilyn McCoo and Billy Davis Jr.
Reunited – Peaches and Herb
Tonight, I Celebrate My Love - Peabo Bryson with Robera Flack

Disc 2

Never Knew Love Like This – Alexander O'Neal featuring Cherrelle
If This World Were Mine – Cheryl Lynn with Luther Vandross
Your Smile – Rene and Angela
How Do You Keep The Music Playing – James Ingram and Patti Austin
Fire And Desire – Rick James and Teena Marie

For more information on how to order this CD, visit the Time Life website directly:
http://www.timelife.com.

¶ 8:00 PM //

Every now and then I have to take time away from the computer and everyone else. I needed a break, but I'm now back. This was in my inbox, so I thought I would share.

A SUGGESTED GIFT LIST

1) THE GIFT OF LISTENING...
But you must REALLY listen.
No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response.
Just listening.

2) THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...
Be generous with appropriate hugs,
kisses, pats on the back and handholds.
Let these small actions demonstrate the
love you have for family and friends.

3) THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER...
Clip cartoons.
Share articles and funny stories.
Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."

4) THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE...
It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet.
A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even
change a life.

5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT...
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or
"That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.

6) THE GIFT OF A FAVOR...
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

7) THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.
Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

8) THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION...
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really
it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.
--author unknown to me

¶ 8:07 AM //

I went to see the new movie - Monster-in-law, starring Jennifer Lopez as the bride to be and Jane Fonda as the Mother in law from hell.

The movie was entertaining and hilarious. The only problem I had was the fact that I didn't write the story...lol. I loved the concept. So many folks have in-laws that are hard to deal with so I applaud the writer of this movie.

I went on a date but most men might consider this a "chick flick" and they would be correct. Although the guy I was with found some of the things funny, he only went because it was a movie I wanted to see.

This movie is probably the best movie Jennifer Lopez has done in the past two years. Wanda Sykes also provides some comic relief. Wanda has a knack for making "anything" funny.

To find out more about this movie, click here: http://www.monsterinlaw.com/

¶ 12:54 AM //

I always love going to book club events. It's a chance to interact with readers and learn what they like and dislike. This past weekend, I had the pleasure of meeting a lovely group of women who made the discussion of Victor McGlothin's novel, Autumn Leaves, unforgettable. Another thing that made this book club event special was the fact that Victor was on hand to discuss what I term as "behind the scenes" of why he wrote the book.

During events such as this, it also gives me the opportunity to spend time with my collegues. It was nice seeing them again.

¶ 11:34 PM //

Natalie’s GOIN CRAZY single has been blasting on airwaves nationwide and earned itself a spot as #1 on Billboard’s top singles chart. After listening to her entire self-titled NATALIE CD, I’m sure there’s more hit singles to come.

Natalie is currently on a two and a half month tour with Frankie J and Baby Bash. She was on the tour bus when I interviewed her.

SHELIA: Where were you when you heard your first single, GOIN CRAZY, on the radio?
NATALIE: I was at a Taco Bell drive thru in Houston, TX with my little sister. My friends and family had asked me had I heard it and I hadn’t yet.

If you're interested in the entire interview, please contact me directly at sheliagoss@aol.com.

Natalie and Latium Entertainment are sponsoring a contest. For details, click here:
NATALIE CONTEST

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¶ 12:11 AM //

Time Life Music presents Lovin’ You from The Classic Soul Ballads Collection. Lovin’ You is filled with songs that will definitely get you in the mood.

Turn the lights down low or light a few candles and let the music play as you and your love one sway to the beautiful sounds of Luther Vandross, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Al Green, Minnie Riperton and many, many more.

I’ve posted a few of the songs that are on the CD below. There are many more, but these are some of my favorites.

Disc 1

Midnight Train To Georgia – Gladys Knight and the Pips
I’ll Never Love This Way Again – Dionne Warwick
Do What You Do – Jermaine Jackson
Going in Circles – The Friends of Distinction
I Do Love You - GQ
Everybody Plays The Fool – The Main Ingredient

Disc 2

Rock Me Tonight – Freddie Jackson
Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
Come Go With Me – Teddy Pendergrass
I’ve Got Love On My Mind – Natalie Cole
Lady – The Whispers
Lovin’ You – Minnie Riperton

For more information on how to order this CD, visit the Time Life website directly:
http://www.timelife.com.

¶ 12:15 AM //

See I can't even say the word.

Trying to juggle it all has been somewhat of a struggle lately. Here I thought I had it all under control. NOT. I knew I didn't when my 20 hour per week worth of sleep finally caught up with me--been falling asleep at the keyboards. For the first time that I can recall, I have what most writers dread--WRITER'S BLOCK.

I know why and it's because I'm tired. So to give myself a home remedy cure, I will be sleeping late on Saturday. I won't be answering the phone unless it's a dire emergency and I will relax and read a good book and watch Lifetime movies when I've slept so much that I can't sleep anymore.

If you're a writer and has experienced writer's block before, what caused it and how did you get over it?

¶ 8:38 AM //

© 2000, 2005 by Shelia M. Goss.All Rights Reserved.

I’ve been thinking about you more than I should

And your actions are doing me no good.

I was there for you whenever you called,

But when I needed you, you couldn’t be found.

When I’m not there, you should understand why.

I gave you my time, and you gave me some lies.

Tell me, Do you get a thrill on playing these games?

Do you look at the caller id, because you can’t remember my name?

Why Are You Playing Games with me?

If you’re not playing games, I do apologize.

But if you are, please stop wasting my time.

I know you’re busy, but I’m busy too.

And no matter what, I seemed to make time for you.

Communication is a two way street.

Verbal, not just in between the sheets.

See I’ve been down this road before

And to be honest, I can’t take much more.

So I ask you, Why Are You Playing Games with me?

I’ve given you the benefit of the doubt,

And now I’m seeing what you’re really about.

You tried to take advantage of my kind heart.

I’ll move on, before I let you tear it apart.

Time and time again, I’ve given you a chance.

So as the music fades, remember this is our last dance.

¶ 12:01 AM //

Although we might not always agree, you've always been there for me.
Although I've caused you heartache and pain, you're someone I can always depend.
There's no one more special than you.
You're like the rainbow, a gift from God.

On the eve of Mother's Day, I want to say--Thank you for being you. There's no other.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MOM.

¶ 9:32 PM //

Of course a trip to Memphis is not complete without a visit to the Lorraine Motel, Beale Street, or Graceland.


Elvis, the miniseries, will air on CBS this Sunday. Even though it's been 25 years since his death, many of his devoted fans will be tuned in.

When I got a chance to interview his daughter, Lisa Marie Presley, it's obvious he passed on the love for good music to her. Why did it take her so long to actively pursue a music career? Lisa Marie says,“Music has always been in my system… It took me awhile to do my first CD because I wanted to be taken serious and for it to be professional.”

If interested in the full interview with the King of Rock 'n Roll's daughter, Lisa Marie, send an email to sheliagoss@aol.com for additional information.

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